Re: 16 Week Update

by **Raquel** on 28th February 2008, 11:33 am

I dont think I wanna be preggies again, I am far too paranoid but I think we might consider no 3 in a few years.For now I just wanna get through this one

by **Marley** on 28th February 2008, 11:27 am

I think I'll be stopping at 2, thanks. Financially, I don't think a third would be an issue, but it would take away from what we can give the first two. We also don't have our own house yet in terms of paying off our own bond, so that's priority at the moment. I'm seeing so many babies at school now, and it is quite tempting, believe me. Neutral

by **Marley** on 28th February 2008, 11:23 am

Yay! :cheers:

I'm glad all is well, R! Vasbyt!

by **Clarabelle** on 28th February 2008, 11:07 am

We had no issues with our second baby decision, that was until 2 weeks after I stopped the pill but then it was already too late, I was already that far along with Kirsten.

Numbers 3 & 4 are proving to be a little more difficult because of the financial aspect and the fact the DH starts his new job on Monday as a Director in an international company, and will be travelling internationally quite regularly.

by **Raquel** on 28th February 2008, 10:54 am

We battled with the second one but a third I think will be alot more difficult to decide on, not to mention the cost of another one

by **Clarabelle** on 28th February 2008, 10:45 am

We have been discussing it on and off since July last year and I was supposed to give my gynae a response when I went for my check-up in January. Needless to say it is still very much up in the air at the moment. I would love another baby, and probably another after that but reality dictates a different script for me. I also don't want to push DH into having another baby because that is when you have to deal with resentment on his part and the ultimate destruction of your marriage.

by **Raquel** on 28th February 2008, 10:39 am

Thanks C, so when you having the next one, are you trying yet?

by **Clarabelle** on 28th February 2008, 10:38 am

Raquel your baby is due right before my birthday. Good people us Leo's! Little boys are such a blessing and if you think you are close to Courtney, you'd better believe that you are going to be so close to this little boy that he will know what you are thinking and feeling.

by **Raquel** on 28th February 2008, 10:34 am

Due date is 08/08/2008,Feels like I have so long to go still!!
when do I start setting up baby stuff, I am still so nervous and dont wanna set everything up yet but at the same time it goes so quickly.So far all we have bought is 2 baby grows(which C chose) and a pack of nappies

by **FlowerChik** on 28th February 2008, 10:30 am

:cheers: YAY!!! So glad to hear everything is running smoothly R! And a boy!!! Very cool......now you'll have one of each Wink

AND you get to do shopping........well, you can't exactly dress him in C's pink babygrows, now can you???? Laughing

Only 24weeks to go!!
When is your estimated due date???

by **Pooh Bear** on 28th February 2008, 10:01 am

This is ultra fantastic Raquel, Congrats! I am so happy for you! Now relax and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy! :cheers:

by **Raquel** on 28th February 2008, 9:14 am

Im trying to enjoy, just want baba to start moving nicely so I can relax a bit

by **Clarabelle** on 28th February 2008, 9:06 am

Hey R, congrats girl and enjoy.

by **Raquel** on 28th February 2008, 8:50 am

I am so excited, we went for a scan yesterday and as usual I was paranoid, anyway baby is perfect and the placenta has moved to where it needs to be and it looks like ITS A BOY!!!! :D