What happens when you just let go

Dunno yet, thought I'd eat smarties through the pregnancy and hope for the best?

Raquel - that was funny!!!

Have you figured how you are going to make a brown brother for J?

An ancient chinese gender chart?????????? That sounds interesting C. Why another boy?

Ahh but you see, I am planning my exit from the company I work for and my maternity leave to coincide firstly, and secondly, I need to pay my car off as I don't want DH to do it for me (once bitten twice shy). Oh and I have a couple of accounts that need tidying up too so I am planning for mid to late 2009 now, and now if that interest rate would just stay where it's at, I'd get things paid off a whole lot sooner.

We are in July now so what's the prob - Just let go!!!

Okay so we decided we are going to start trying for a new baby. Now, we use an ancient chinese gender chart to guide as us on when we should conceive so that we have another little boy . . . my options are July, September, October, December through to Feb. Problem is that don't know if I can really wait that long.

Thanks R, I needed to hear that.

everything will work itself out. You gave the situation to God, now dont take it away from him.

Thanks for all the support ladies. I am terrified all of a sudden and we are both wondering if this is actually the right thing to do. I have started my preggy vitamins (got recommendations from the folks at GE ) which surprisingly enough are making me feel great and I have energy again.

I think what has pushed us to the edge again is the thoughts on what we are going to need for another baby, what it is all going to cost, how are we going to take care of three children, do I give up work then or do I stick to my plan of the end of the year?

So many questions and only 1 week to go of the pill

thats awesome C, Im so happy for you
I thinks its gonna be great fopr you.

Enjoy practising

A friend of mine went in this morning to be induced, I hope she is doing ok!!

That's very good news C. It's not a simple decision to make.....glad you've come to a mutual agreement.

And this from the girl who makes it up as she goes?

I think the pill makes me part of the seven dwarves (itchy, bitchy, scratchy, grouchy etc) and I am so hoping that changes once I stop taking the revolting thing.

I still can't believe it, I gave it over to God totally and said "if it is your will then you will show us" and WOW, WOW, WOW, we are at the point now where we are thinking of a baby.

No no no, you taking all the fun out of it!!! You go make nicey nice now with A... gokay?
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Sadly that isn't the part I am looking forward too, maybe once I am off the pill, that will change.

Thanks, and you'll be the first to know.

Yay C! I'm so happy for you!!!! So practise practise practise!!

Well ladies, it's official, I gave up on the idea of having another baby because A was adamant he didn't want another child.

A went to see his life coach over the weekend and was asked one question: "if in the futurer, we could see a book of all the things we have said no to, would it break you heart to see a 5yr old's birthday party and know that you said no to it?

Needless to say we have been in serious discussions over the last week and we have decided that another baby is definitely on the cards and we are going to start as soon as I reach the sugar tabs in my pill pack!